HOW GOOD IS OK . . .
Now we all
Swing - to have a good time (well that’s
The idea anyway) but when is a good time too good.
If
You have the most amazing experience with someone else . .
What do you say….
1. Do you tell your partner exactly everything - passing on any helpful hints.
2. Do you just say -
It was OK
3. Do you say - FUCK THAT WAS AMAZING - Invite em over for
dinner Next Saturday.
I know . . if my partner had the most amazing time - i’d feel a touch fragile - but then would want to know the details - what - how - and would work to have that technique in my repertoire. If I had the most amazing time . . . i’d say it was great . . and then tell them what they did that was so good.
How do you stand up in the face of another person giving your partner an AMAZING time.
I would love it, thats the whole idea of swinging. I would tell all concerned how amazing it was, it does well for everyones ego
Hmm! I’m pretty sure if something really fantastic happened I’d run tutorials with Mr Pet. So… number 1 I guess.
He’s asked me to do things for him before that others have done for him and I like that he tells me! It feels good to try new things… though that said, I guess if he kept rabbiting on and on and on about this other person, I’d start getting ticky.
Fragile…
To be honest, I ALWAYS ask the questions before they come up - yes sometimes it hurts to hear the answers and we have a deal that anything we think is “special” is only for us and us alone… does this answer the Q? No but it’s good to have somethings that are sacred eh!
Open minded: The other guy has talent and your Partner loves it.
lmao Michael - did you forget the last bit on your comment?
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Open minded: The other guy has talent and your Partner loves it…. and you thank him for it!!!
Both of us are happy to share accurate accounts of our fun with others.
Being jealous doesn’t enter into our process, so it’s easy for us. Besides, we can usually tell how much fun each other is having anyway!
We’re both voyeurs, so watching the other being pleasured is one of our biggest turn ons.