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Written by Luke   
Saturday, 14 June 2008


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643388_cupcakes.jpgSo You have a few special Play pals. It's all good. Everyone knows what everyone likes and dislikes.

You've got your #1 partner as staple diet. You have your special friends who are great icing on The cake. Now what?

Do you keep looking for different flavours or do you just settle down to enjoy the meal?

What do you think?

1011895_the_kiss.jpgWe all have friends. They call. You're not doing anything else. You are in the mood - Hell yer - I'd go there. Who wouldn't?

When the larder is full do you bother with dating profiles? Do you bother hanging around clubs and parties? What prompts you to keep looking?

Does that tell you something about what motivates us all?

Don't ask us - we aren't paid to have an opinion. But what's your opinion?




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cumandplay69   | Registered | 2008-06-15 20:23:23
avatar Variety is the spice of life, so keep going is my opinion. You can NEVER have too many friends! That way when you have a party, wow is it a party!
Luke   | Super Administrator | 2008-06-15 21:50:37
avatar I agree you can never have too many friends - but what about the situation where they are open-minded friends who have a reasonable expectation of some action?
Swingfest   | Author | 2008-06-16 03:10:22
avatar I will admit, our level of interest on dating sites has waned......MASSIVELY. We struggle to find people who will actually meet us, especially when we insist on meeting at a Swing club. Thats a true test for us if people are ready to step out of their comfort zone, and if they realise they don't have to go to a club just to fuck someone.

We have been truly blessed. We have a largeish circle of very good friends that we have played with and continue to play with when the mutual 'mood' takes us. We usually now meet really good couples through an introduction by another couple, or through a club, or even HERE (Waves at the people who know what I am talking about xxx)

We have gatherings at our own Home, that usually include Swinging couples, and there is No expecatation on anyones part that play will take place. It CAN and does happen, but there is never a plan to play. Premeditated shagging actually rarely works for us (though it has), and its always better when its spontaneous and unplanned.

I think you reach a 'tipping point' in the scene, where 'new' people become the rarity, as your standards change, and your circle of freinds gets to a point where you know all the 'good people' already ? if that makes sense ?

Cheers

W & L
cumandplay69   | Registered | 2008-06-16 05:54:54
avatar Yep, the old pre-meditated shagging in the swing scene just doesn't cut it for me....my partner is a different story....can and will fuck on demand Lol! Everyone is different and that is what makes the world go around, so to each their own...whatever floats your boat!
Luke   | Super Administrator | 2008-06-16 14:40:08
avatar That's interesting '69. Do you two have different approaches to all this?
Feel free to ignore the question because it's a very personal one, but how do you reconcile different approaches?
cumandplay69   | 144.138.111.xxx | 2008-06-17 03:45:09
D is the super horny one...I am really just a good fun girl and someitmes I like to Shag if the moon and stars are aligned correctly lol! We sometimes have our domestics, but then I reckon everyone does occasionally. We have had to work through a lot of stuff as I guess everyone does too! Baby steps and it all keeps getting better. Hope this answers your question.
Luke   | Super Administrator | 2008-06-17 03:55:16
avatar Clearly you do because we have seen you two together and you are great. But how do you reconcile the differences?

Again a very personal question - ignore me or tell me to f.o. if I am being nosy.
raven62   | Registered | 2008-06-17 08:45:41
avatar I'm happy to shag spontaneously any day. Just have to sort the days when I'm not minding Kids, not working, not refereeing football, not looking after parents' boat, not helping ex with her chemotherapy and not too tired.
Paula   | Super Administrator | 2008-06-17 08:49:00
avatar How bout friday lmao

Only joking.. sorry you have such a full schedule... make sure you have enough time to have fun though, it actually keeps you alive and functioning!
raven62   | Registered | 2008-06-17 08:50:16
avatar I wannit BB. How about between 7pm an d 8pm on 18 August?
Paula   | Super Administrator | 2008-06-17 18:28:34
avatar Cool Raven - see you then - the normal 6 minutes ok with you? lmao
cumandplay69   | 203.40.111.xxx | 2008-06-17 17:47:42
Actually it is funny but we played with some friends just last night and it was a little pre-meditated....but very last minutre pre-meditation....a lot of fun cos she is a bondage Mistress and tied D up and made him watch...that was funny considering he is the one who is always more up for anything than me! Anyway, resolving the difference...I really can't answer that except to say that sometimes I like to watch...doesn't everybody? Hope this answers your question Luke!
Luke   | Super Administrator | 2008-06-17 21:15:57
avatar Yes 69 that answers my question. So they aren't really disparate aspirations - you both want different things but they Come from the same thing.

So back to the original question - if you like to watch then I can see the benefit in Watching lot's of different people (voyeur in me coming out).

Occasionally I like to watch - but to be fun it has to be a two way exchange. The watched has to want to be watched.

Occasionally we will consciously 'put on a show' if we know we are being surreptitiously watched. Not in any gross American Porn movie show way. But we definitely do stuff that we wouldn't normally do if we know it's turning someone else on.
petitmiam - :)   | Registered | 2008-06-18 02:13:44
avatar "Not in any gross American porn movie show way" - LOL ewww. Don't put images in our heads!

On the orignial question - I think we like to keep an eye out too We don't really have a larder yet to speak of but there's no real reason to not see what's out there every now and then.
Luke   | Super Administrator | 2008-06-18 00:56:18
avatar Oh yer baby, you've found it, you've got it, you keep it ...

Paula   | Super Administrator | 2008-06-18 01:05:45
avatar LUKE BEHAVE Right NOW!
Luke   | Super Administrator | 2008-06-18 01:09:57
avatar I was just quoting from a porno i saw once ....
cumandplay69   | Registered | 2008-06-18 18:49:37
avatar I like to dress up and flirt but when it comes to sex I am not very exciting to watch lol! That is just my opinion. For that reason I am not that into putting on a show....now D on the other hand could show off all day long and loves to put on a show. That's a time when I too like to watch....and he does this thing where he turns to me with a norty little grin as if to say, "I am so norty"...cracks me up big time. Anyway, whatever floats your boat.
fipty801   | Registered | 2008-06-18 19:21:18
avatar J is a better judge of character than I am, but if we meet a couple or single OUTSIDE of a club setting, then we are expecting to play. We seriously don't have time for the "we don't play on first meet" scenario.
Club experiences have been, for us, a totally random thing that requires a lot of compromise (if we haven't planned to meet someone there). We never expect to play at a club.
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