They may not be everyone's Cup of tea, but recent comments here have provoked some interest. This article from Suzy at www.brizzybangers.com.au sets out what goes on behind The scenes.
Gang bangs are about women who like the attention of multiple male partners and men that can Play in a team environment. We aim at our parties to have 3 -4 men for every lady that books. This does not mean the Ladies are limited to that few men as most enjoy the attentions of way more than that, usually in a few sessions, some in one long session from party start to end.
At most parties we get Newbies, checking out if we’re for them. Few run screaming for the hills but a number do decide It’s not their thing because they can’t perform with an audience. We always ask new ladies to not prick tease. There is way too much testosterone flying about to have ladies flashing their boobs or whatever and then not following through. We have No issues with those looking but not Playing we just ask that they are clear with their intentions to others.
I am writing from the perspective as one of four that owns and operates Brizzy Bangers gang bang parties. We came about after an unfortunate foray by myself three years ago into another group operating gang bang parties.
It was not a good experience shall we say. They had about 50 men and 3 women other than myself. The other women were not using condoms and it made me queasy to see men going down on these women after they had had unprotected sex with many men. There were no towels so a shower was not possible before or after any activity and the food consisted of a bag of crisps on the table unopened and the ice was whatever the cheap hotel room provided in one of those small ice cube trays.
I saw Mick, our web master and another who went on to become one of the banger four a few days later and was still horrified by what I had seen and all he said was “We can do better” From that Brizzy Bangers was borne and within a month we had a web site and our first party up and happening.
We had 17 ladies attend that first party and have only gotten bigger since then.
We aim at our parties to have 3 -4 men for every lady that books. This does not mean the ladies are limited to that few men as most enjoy the attentions of way more than that, usually in a few sessions, some in one long session from party start to end. We have strict rules and non adherence means instant removal from the party. Many are basic to all swinger events such as ask before You touch, no means no etc but we also have others such as condoms are compulsory even with your own partner. All rooms are open at all times and remain dimly lit. We see this as a safety issue, any woman in a room with 4, 5 or more guys most of whom she barely knows feels safer if the door is open and others are Watching the activity.
At most parties we get newbies, checking out if we’re for them. Few run screaming for the hills but a number do decide it’s not their thing because they can’t perform with an audience. We always ask new ladies to not prick tease. There is way too much testosterone flying about to have ladies flashing their boobs or whatever and then not following through. We have no issues with those looking but not playing we just ask that they are clear with their intentions to others.
It is usually but not always the case that the guys approach the ladies to ask if they are interested or if they can join in if a lady is already at play. The decision is always up to the lady to decide, she alone has the Right to say yes please or no thankyou. We have always said it is all about the ladies and what they want.
We have a lot of regular ladies that are bi but at our parties we ask them to not explore this part of their sexuality and similarly guys are advised bi activity is not allowed.
Those that attend range in age from 20 – 55 or more in the guys case and most though not all of the ladies are 30+ Most parties we get bookings from 40+ women and usually get a few first timers drop out so our usual numbers are 30 – 35 women and as I said we aim for a 3-4 : 1 ratio including the partners of the women. Most of these women are in relationships if not married and most Come with their partner although a couple regularly attend alone but with the Knowledge of their partner.
Only one or two women attend and their partner is unaware. We feel with the men and women alike it is not our place to judge their circumstances and think they are probably safer at one of our parties than looking for an outlet for their needs in other places. We aim to simply provide a safe and happy environment where all can safe in the knowledge that we will not judge. We get people of all shapes and sizes, all walks of life, ethnicities and even a few with disabilities. We are very conscious of the latter as Mick our web master has parkinsons.
Our parties are very different from most swingers parties and clubs. We usually start at 7pm and for the first 45 minutes there is a lot of socialising, flirting, sizing each other up etc At 7.45 most are there and I do my speech thing. The rules are reiterated and reinforced. The ladies are introduced by both name and nick from our site. We have a hugely popular chat room on site and many get comfy by spending time in there chatting and love being able to put names to the nicks of those they have “met” on line. By 8pm the place is rocking and keeps that way til we wind it up at midnight. Many ask us to run longer but if you work it out there is way more actual play time at one of our parties than you will ever get at a regular venue. As I said most guys approach the ladies either before they play or while they are playing. Some partners stick with their wives and keep an eye on the proceedings others go happily off and play knowing their wives are safe under our watchful eyes.
We provide an extensive range of hot and cold food, tea, Coffee and soft drinks. We supply condoms, lube tissues etc in all play areas.
We’re not the place for everyone but if gang bangs are your thing we feel we provide the best environment anywhere to indulge in this activity.
I am happy to answer any questions anyone has about us or gang bangs in general either in the comments below or
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