| The Age of Openness We Hope |
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| Written by Paula | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Sunday, 08 June 2008 | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
  I have noticed recently a change in  The openness of people that are coming to the club. They now give You real names and don’t try to even hide their true thoughts and feelings. I have been told that as we are so open about what we do, they have simply followed suit. Last night I showed a new couple around the club. We introduced ourselves at the start of the tour. But as we finished the tour, the female turned to me and confessed that they tole me false names at the start. I asked why they gave their true names and she told me as I had been so open about everything the least they could do was to be open in return. They asked how to let people know their “style” of Play, and I told them that in my opinion the best way was to just be upfront. She told me she had NEVER thought of doing that and that this was perhaps the main reason she had issues. Seems they did not talk to their play partners about what they were doing or going to do and eventually rules were broken and of course, issues arose. ---  Which brings me back to the point in hand – people are beginning to be far more open about what they want and what they are hoping to achieve. After all, what fun is It to meet a couple and play when you have a feeling that something is not quite Right with what you are doing. I Know how hard it is at first to let someone know your rules and boundaries but we have always told newbie’s that this is best and all of a sudden they are taking it on board! Wow – it is finally working. Now all we have to do is get people to understand where We are coming from – tried this out last night and got very confused looks and then got told “not to worry just Come and fuck us – we wont tell” WTF! We have met this couple a few times at the club and they seem a nice enough couple but they do need to learn No is no! So maybe now we have people being open about what they want we will have to go through the whole respect thing again! But that is what is fun about the whole Lifestyle – just as you think you got it! You understand it! You are good with it all…. Someone or something changes and you are on a learning curve all over again… I love it.   
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Better to take a big gulp and spit out what you really want to say.
very cool with it.
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