Everyone does It differently. Some people met their soulmate in their late teens and have been with them for decades. Some people took a couple of go's to get it Right. Some choose to live apart and just get together for some fun. How do You do it?

Since every couple has a moment when they first exist, it must range from seconds old to more substantial. Where do you fit in? We just met outside The club We Play together but live apart De facto Married I'm just using him/her to get into the club Committed and proud Priests can't marry A couple? Not for much longer ... VoteVote

How long have you been together? Married/De-facto/Committed < 1 year 1-2 years 2-5 years 5-10 years 10 - 20 years 20 years + VoteVote

I think I’ve got it right. Trouble is it took me 3 decades of relationships of various forms to get it right. Some were Exclusive, some not. So there was the physically gorgeous exceptionally intelligent fruitcake who Cuckolded me while I was being Mr Faithful for 3 years, the skinny but strong, sexually charged lover of 4 years with whom I traveled the world and played MFF with her girlfriend, then 20 years marriage with Ms Frigid Control Freak, The Affair, then the slutty non-committal stage and now the Lifestyle couple committed to each other.

Does everyone on this site think they have it right? Some may in fact be scheming their way out of a relationship via Swinging and know they have it wrong. And the right I have is not right for everyone. Just because my marriage ended (I don’t say failed because 20 years is a success that produced many positives) doesn’t mean that a solid marriage can’t evolve to embracing the lifestyle successfully. Others may have No relationship at all except as occasional players.

So what form does your coupledom take? Where do you fit in?    We play together but live apart 0   0%    I'm just using him/her to get into the club 0   0%    Priests can't marry 0   0%    A couple? Not for much longer ... 0   0%    We just met outside the club 1   2.7%    De facto 4   10.81%    Committed and proud 4   10.81%    Married 28   75.68% Number of Voters  : 37 First Vote  : Monday, 21 April 2008 14:27 Last Vote  : Sunday, 21 June 2009 17:37

Married/De-facto/Committed Married/De-facto/Committed    < 1 year 1   3.33%    1-2 years 1   3.33%    2-5 years 5   16.67%    10 - 20 years 5   16.67%    5-10 years 8   26.67%    20 years + 10   33.33% Number of Voters  : 30 First Vote  : Monday, 21 April 2008 14:27 Last Vote  : Friday, 24 October 2008 00:18

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newswingers   | Editor | 2008-04-21 06:09:56 Why can't I choose married AND committed and proud? Laura Reply | Quote You need to be logged in to vote

Luke   | Super Administrator | 2008-04-21 14:37:39 Because that would sway the statistics but the message isn't lost on anyone around here ... Reply | Quote You need to be logged in to vote

Luke   | Super Administrator | 2008-05-07 16:51:11 Interesting footnote - when we put a poll people seem to comment less - maybe the poll say a lot ... Reply | Quote You need to be logged in to vote

raven62   | Registered | 2008-05-07 18:22:51 Sorry, Too busy thinking about the results to write. Reply | Quote You need to be logged in to vote

Luke   | Super Administrator | 2008-05-07 20:02:57 Hadn't seen that :- There is a large group in the 20+ year range and another in the 5-10 year range. On the face of it without any further analysis one could be forgiven for thinking: 20 + years arises from a sense of complete security and looking for something more. 5-10 years arises from scratching a 7 year itch ???? Combined they represent half of the sample. But then a sample of 27 is statistically insignificant in terms of the whole population - perhaps more significant as a sample of our members. Reply | Quote You need to be logged in to vote

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