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 Just reading a "guide to swinging" - written by an Aussie ! Details to come !
   
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At 16:46:46 on Thu, 20 Nov  
Swingfest said:  
 
At 12:06:57 on Tue, 18 Nov  
Paula said:  
 
At 8:33:17 on Tue, 18 Nov  
Swingfest said:  
 
At 5:53:40 on Mon, 17 Nov  
Paula said:  
 
At 8:07:05 on Sun, 16 Nov  
Swingfest said:  
 
At 7:55:01 on Sun, 16 Nov  
Paula said:  
 
At 6:20:08 on Sat, 15 Nov  
Swingfest said:  
 
At 15:02:27 on Fri, 14 Nov  
Paula said:  
 
At 13:34:18 on Fri, 14 Nov  
Paula said:  
 
At 14:10:50 on Thu, 13 Nov  
Paula said:  
 
 Just reading a "guide to swinging" - written by an Aussie ! Details to come !
   
 HI TO ALL GUESTS
   
 We've been around the block a few times, we just like to park in a different drive way now and then ! *wink*
   
 mornin all - monday is here again!
   
 Great wedding, Piccies to come !
   
 Congrats - hope all went well
   
 CplinBlk are getting married at UTOPIA this afternoon !
   
 hi rolly and voigtstr
   
 Paula is waving at hAWKS!
   
 Pussy club is on tonight woot woot
   
 
 
 
 
In other news ...
In praise of bolder women E-mail
Written by Raven62   
Tuesday, 03 June 2008


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984783_gift_2.jpgMy gorgeous life partner is about to have a birthday. It's not her fault, The birthday I mean.

The gorgeous part IS her fault, a product of the way she conducts herself.  She  displays none of that Vanilla submission to society's rule that the older women should dress to cover up. Walking with a straight back, tummy in, tits out,  Pilates style, she oozes strength and confidence and does it her way. Imperfections born of age and medical intervention are accepted or cleverly concealed by stylish dress. To me she is so much more attractive than the girl I see in photos of decades ago.
984793_dancing_in_the_night.jpgThere is nothing more attractive than a woman (or man, a person indeed) who is happy with herself. I have a lingering mental image of an older woman at Swingfest who danced so seductively that she had assembled a coterie of admirers around her. They were at her beck and call. Her stylish lingerie and the writhing movement of her body stirred loins, including mine, yet she was clearly too short for her weight, a minor fact dismissed by me because of her radiance. Her demeanour said to me that she knew she could get what she wanted, whatever that might be.

zum_40___geburtstag______.jpgConfidence and knowing what we want is a product of age. For me (No youngster myself) being with a woman who knows what she wants is liberating. I do not need to worry that she is metamorphosing herself into someone that will make me like her.  If I don't like her as she is then she won't want me - leave, goodbye, hasta la vista baby. So knowing there is truth in the way we relate, that she chooses to live with me when she is constantly hit on by others, this is a source of enormous contentment for us both. 

My gorgeous life partner is about to have a birthday. It is a number over 39. Freaky stuff for most women. Yet I would not have her any other way and I know for myself I would not trade her wisdom for a younger model.




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Luke   | Super Administrator | 2008-06-02 17:56:38
avatar I'd agree with what you said Raven. It's not a criticism of young people. There is so much emphasis on youth in the media (no I don't want to start an argument) it's nice to hear both sides of the story every now and then.
Luke   | Super Administrator | 2008-06-02 18:48:51
avatar I think I am lucky enough to have the race bred Ferrari version ...

stylish, beautiful, great fun, but she does turn on a dime
Paula   | Super Administrator | 2008-06-07 20:28:51
avatar I think you have summed up the differences in Lifestyle women - most NEVER let anything get in the way of ALWAYS looking, feeling and being sexy.

If there is no self love (to an extent - we have all met the barbie and ken types) how can you expect anyone else to respect, or love you?

Sometimes it takes a while to break free of the baggage we all carry but eventually, just like the butterfly we open our wings and soar to newer and oh so much higher heights - our men allow, help and guide us - so kudos to you guys too without you we are merely moths!
Lifestyle_couple - In praise of Bolder women....   | 58.107.101.xxx | 2008-06-15 02:05:19
What a great message in this article.. and to see the comment suggesting that 40 is 'Old'. or at least ringing warning bells of advancing age... STOP... have no fear... don't abuse yourselves with booze, smoking or substance abuse.... keep healthy... and accept life and show the confidence and attitude suggested in the article.... Typical result.... My 55yo trim slim attractive lady Friend and I... had a most enjoyable Swinging evening with attractive friends last Friday evening... [She 35, He 40].... dinner at their place and then the four of us Playing... lots of foreplay and appreciating the sensuality and intimacy... [Leading of course to a lot of rather debauched Fucking... and all of us very pleased with it and planning to do it all again soon.....]... so.... what does that say about age.... Believe me... with the Right attitude... you ALL have a long way to go.... [BTW... I am 66.. and have been in the swinging scene for many years... the social life and friends made is a very important aspect..]...

We are always happy to hear from decent, civilised, uncomplicated people who feel comfortable in any company and who understand that it is NOT only about sex... [We do visit QLD occassionally.. we are from Sydney...]

J & T.....
Paula   | Super Administrator | 2008-06-15 03:44:52
avatar Hey guys! Sounds like fun was had all the way round... I think we need a blog from you - 66 and sexy as... Hell yeah!

Email Luke for full blogging rights- would love to hear any insight you have on us "Newbies"
Ms Bhaven     | 67.53.227.xxx | 2008-06-19 09:31:54
Quote:
to me she is so much more attractive than the girl I see in photos of decades ago


Strange, I noticed this the other day when I picked up a photo of Mr B at 20.
He's so much more now than he was then.

I know I'm late on this but Happy Birthday to a very beautiful lady (I'm sure).

Ms B
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